He sat there in a cold dark prison cell; -- he knew that the next foot-steps in the corridor might be those of the guards taking him away to his execution. -- His only bed was the hard, cold stone floor of that dark, cramped prison cell. 

   Not an hour passed when he was free from the constant irritation of the chains -- & the pain of the iron handcuffs cutting into his wrists & legs. 

   Separated from friends -- unjustly accused -- brutally treated -- if ever a person had a right to complain -- it was this man -- once ever so active -- now dwindling away -- almost forgotten in a harsh prison environment.

   But -- but instead of complaints -- his lips rang with words of praise & thanksgiving!

 

   The man was the Apostle Paul -- a man who had learned the meaning of true thanksgiving -- even in the midst of great adversity!

   In that awful prison environment -- Paul wrote the words found in --Ephesians 5:19-20.

  This Letter to the Ephesians -- is probably the greatest of Paul's writings.

   When Paul wrote these words from that prison cell in Rome -- chains were around his wrists & ankles. 

   Yet his words are uplifting -- powerful -- & extremely important to us -- even today -- especially on this Sunday before Thanksgiving!

   Listen to them; -- allow them to sink into your heart! -- Eph. 5:19-20. 

   "Speaking to yourselves in psalms & hymns & spiritual songs -- singing & making melody in your heart to the Lord; -- giving thanks always for all things unto God & the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ."

 

   Paul is saying -- "Sing & make music in your heart to the Lord -- always giving thanks to God the Father for everything" (NIV).

  Think about what Paul is saying:  "Always giving thanks ... for everything."

 

   But -- isn't Paul going a little too far?

   Of course we can give thanks for food,  family,  & friends; -- for country,  church,  & community; -- for eyes,  ears,  fingers,  hands,  feet,  & a sound mind. -- Who isn't thankful for the good things of life?

   But -- can we be thankful for the rough & touch experiences of life?

   Paul is suggesting in our text that we must be thankful always for everything.  -- Can Paul really mean it? -- Isn't Paul going a little too far?

   Must we thank God for our problems?

   Can we have a thankful attitude toward the troubles that slap us down?

   Must we thank God for our troubles too?

 

  It seems -- that the men of greatest faith have had this holy habit; -- this holy habit of "always giving thanks ... for everything."

   It was true of the Psalmist David; -- it was true of the Apostle Paul. 

   It has been true of so many godly saints -- down through the ages!

 

   Thanksgiving for the Apostle Paul was not a once-a-year celebration -- but rather a daily reality that changed his life -- his overall attitude -- & made him a joyful person in every situation!

  Daily thanksgiving -- no matter the circumstances -- can change your life also! -- It can literally turn your life around!

 

   A young pastor learned a great lesson while counseling.

   Early in his ministry a young mother came to him -- torn by the stress of a crumbling marriage -- & five young children to care for.

   Not knowing what to do or say -- the young pastor prescribed better than he knew. -- He showed her Phil. 4:6-7 -- & instructed her to read the verses each morning & evening for one week.

   Phil. 4:6-7 (also written by Paul) -- reads: -- "Do not be anxious about anything -- but in everything -- by prayer & petition, with thanksgiving -- present your requests to God. -- And the peace of God -- which transcends all understanding -- will guard your hearts & minds in Christ Jesus” (NIV).

   The young pastor asked the troubled lady to find something for which to be thankful about her way-ward husband.

 

  The next week the young mother returned.   She seemed very peaceful! 

  Not quite understanding it -- the pastor asked: -- "You don't seem to have a problem today. -- Has your husband returned home?"

  She said: -- "Oh, no. -- But I was faithful with the scripture prescription you gave me -- & God has given me peace."

   Then she added: -- "I thought & thought about what I could be thankful for. -- Finally, it came. -- He is a good truck driver."

   That tiny thought of thanksgiving released enough power to bring her strength through one of the most stressful periods of her life!

 

   Thanksgiving -- that is the giving of thanks to God -- is powerful!

   And the giving of thanks to God for all His blessings -- should be one of the most distinctive marks of every believer in Jesus Christ!

   Is that true in your life? -- Do you posses the spirit of thanksgiving?

   Or -- has a spirit of ingratitude hardened your heart -- & chilled your relationship with God -- & with others?  

   Nothing turns us into bitter, selfish, dissatisfied people more quickly than an ungrateful heart.

   And nothing will do more to restore contentment -- & the joy of our salvation -- than a true spirit of thankfulness!

 

   God appreciates our thanksgiving! -- It lifts Him up -- & it glorifies Him!

   Thanksgiving endears God to us -- & it draws us closer to Him. 

 

   Our thanksgiving should include at least three things: --

 

 

1. Thanksgiving should include the Blessings of Life!

 

   Have you ever stood over a sink full of dirty dishes -- & given thanks to God?  -- Probably not! -- But we should!

   A sink full of dirty dishes usually means that we have been blessed by God with daily food & water. 

   Do you realize that two thirds of the world goes to bed hungry every night?

 

   Our prayers are often very general. -- We say, “Thank you God for all your blessings" -- but what are those blessings for which we give thanks?

   The song writer said it so well -- "Count your blessings -- name them one by one. -- Count your many blessing; -- see what God has done."

 

   We have all had some difficult times in our lives.

   Maybe even times that we have despaired even life itself.

   But -- if we really look at all the blessings of life -- we will find that it’s good to be alive!

   To feel the wind in our face; -- to see the sunrise; -- to fall in love; -- to see a new born child for the first time; -- to feel our child -- or a parent -- or even a friend -- hug us -- & tell us we are special!

 

  Thank God for the material blessings He gives you.

  We seem never to be satisfied with what we have -- rich or poor -- healthy or sick.

   But what a difference it makes when we realize that everything we have has been given to us by God!

   Are you constantly preoccupied with what you do not have?

   Or have you learned to thank God for what you do have? 

 

  Thank God for the people in your life!

   It is so easy to take people for granted -- or even to complain & become angry because they do not meet our every wish.

   But we need to give thanks for those around us -- our spouses -- our children -- our relatives -- our friends -- & others who help us in so many ways. 

   Do you let others know that you appreciate them? -- & are thankful for them? -- Thank God for those who touch your life!

  

   Our thanksgiving should always include the blessings of life!

 

 

2.  Thanksgiving should also include the Burdens of Life!

   Now this is the tough one! -- But over & over -- especially in the writings of the Apostle Paul -- that is the admonition that is given to us.

   In our text -- Paul says -- “Always giving thanks ... for everything."

   In Phil 4:6 -- Paul says -- "...in everything ... with thanksgiving ..."

   In 1 Thess. 4:18 -- Paul says -- "...give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus” (NIV).

 

   Paul even demonstrated this truth for us while he & Silas were in jail in Philippi; -- Because they had shared Jesus with a demon-possessed slave girl -- the Jews had them arrested; -- they were severely beaten -- & then they were thrown into jail.

   But we are told that -- "around midnight, Paul & Silas were praying & singing hymns to God, -- & the other prisoners were listening" (Acts 16:25 NLT).  -- As a result, even the Philippian jailer was converted. 

 

   This admonishment to give thanks for all things means that we are to thank God for the apparent good and the apparent bad; -- both are in the hands of God!

 

   Job thanked God for all things -- at least at the beginning of his tragedy.

   You remember that Job's wife had had enough of all their problems -- & she suggested that Job simply curse God & die.

   Job's answer was straight -- & to the point.  -- He told her -- "You talk like a godless woman. -- Should we accept only good things from the hand of God & never anything bad?"  (2:10 - NLT).

 

   To be thankful in all things means to turn our attention away from the hardship & trials we bear -- & to begin to focus upon the sovereignty of an all-wise God -- Who is working out His plan & purpose in our lives.

   This is never an easy thing to do. -- Yet we can learn to honestly pray -- "Lord, I don't pretend to like what is happening. -- I wouldn't choose it this way. -- But help me to use what You permit -- & be thankful anyway."

 

   Can we be thankful for pain? -- For suffering?

   We can -- if we learn to use it.

   We may never be able to understand it -- or explain it. -- But we can use it to become stronger ourselves -- & more compassionate with others.

   Can we be thankful for temptations & trials?

   We can -- if we see that a battle must be fought before a victory can be won.

   Can we be thankful for disappointments? -- The heartache of betrayal & misunderstanding?

   We can -- if we remember that "He comforts us in all our troubles so that we (in turn) can comfort others. -- When others are troubled -- we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us" (2 Cor. 1:4 - NLT).

 

   Do you mean to say pastor -- that we are to thank God even for tragedy & death?

   I don't like giving thanks for tragedy & death -- but I have a question: -- "Do you have an alternative to suggest?"

   The alternatives -- upon examination -- are not very good.

   We can believe that God had nothing to do with this world's tragedies -- & that things are simply out of control.

   Or we can believe that God is a monster -- & we complain bitterly against Him.

   Or we can believe that God is basically good -- but helpless.

   But all of these alternatives led to bitterness or hopelessness.

   The only alternative which does not lead to bitterness is the recognition that everything that comes from the hand of God is proper -- & should be received with praise & thanksgiving!

 

   As we learn to submit the sovereignty of an all-wise God -- then we can learn to offer unlimited praise to the Lord -- even in difficult circumstances.

 

   The name of Matthew Henry is familiar to many Christians around the world -- because of his well-known commentary on the Scriptures.

   He was a godly man who accepted everything in life as coming from the hand of the Lord.

   One day he experienced the stark reality of being robbed of his wallet.

   That night -- he told his wife about his unfortunate experience -- & then said -- "I thank God!" -- Surprised, she asked why he would thank God!

   He replied -- "I am thankful; -- first, because I was never robbed before; second, although he took my wallet, he did not take my life; -- third, although he took all I had on me -- I had left most of my money at home & so he did not take that much; -- & fourth, I am thankful by the grace of God -- that it was I who was robbed -- & not I who was the robber."

 

   What is your reaction to the difficult circumstances of life?

 

   I am personally indebted to a wonderful old Christian who became bed-ridden when she was past 90.

   I sympathized by saying: -- "I see you are having a little trouble."

   Her wrinkled face smiled back at me -- & she chided me -- "Oh, no, I’m not having trouble. -- I just didn't know when to quit -- & the good Lord made me lie down. -- But I have been having a wonderful time reading His Word -- & talking with Him when I can't sleep -- & He turns this bed into a green pasture. -- 'He makes me to lie down in green pastures.'"

 

   Most of us adults in America are living too fast -- too hard -- & too strenuously. -- We are caught in a bumper-to-bumper way of living.

   We are always on the move -- driving, going, just coming home, -- or just getting ready to leave -- but always on the move -- so that we hardly know how to relax for a quiet evening at home. 

   We are restless -- nervous -- fidgety. -- Even when we are relaxing -- we have an almost guilty complex that we should be doing something -- or going somewhere!

   All the while -- God is trying to say something: -- "Slow down & start living. -- Enjoy your friends -- your family -- & your faith!"

   But the voice of God is overpowered by the roar of the traffic -- the wail of sirens -- the rude interruptions of the doorbell -- or the cell phone.

   Meanwhile the soft voice of God whispers, saying: -- "Lie down, my child & rest a while! -- Your nerves weren't made to stand the strain; -- your body wasn't engineered for such stress."  

   But we refuse to lie down -- until God makes us lie down.

   And then we think that we are in trouble -- & we wonder "where is God?  -- Why didn't He prevent this? -- Why didn't He come to my rescue?"

 

   Is it really trouble & tragedy? -- Or is it a divinely disguised blessing?

   Trouble is not always trouble! -- It is often God's way of making us lie down -- turn around -- stand still -- pray harder -- or start over again!

 

   So often trouble is only a part of the painful growing process!

   When trouble breaks your heart -- & makes your knees buckle -- & forces penitent tears from eyes turned in prayer to Almighty God -- then trouble may turn out to be a redeeming agony; -- a blessing in disguise.

   Every trouble has vast built-in opportunities to make you grow -- to learn -- to serve -- or to be cleansed. 

   So learn to thank God even for the burdens of life!

 

 

3.  Thanksgiving should include the Benefits of Life -- as well -- especially our life in Jesus Christ!

 

   We draw back from difficulties -- & yet not one of us is exempt from some kind of trouble.

   However -- as Christians -- in the midst of the trials -- we can thank God because we know that He has promised to be with us -- & that He will help us!

 

   I don't know what trials you may be facing right now -- but God does!

   And He loves you -- & is with you by His Holy Spirit.

   In ourselves we do not have the strength that we so often need.

   But when we look to Him -- we discover that "it is God who works in (us) to will -- & to act according to His good purpose” (Phil. 2:13 - NIV).

 

   As Christians -- there are many benefits of life we enjoy!

   The greatest of these is to know that we are forgiven -- & through faith in Jesus Christ -- we are a child of God!

   And because we believe His Holy Word -- "we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God" (Rom 8:28).

 

   Understanding that everything comes from God -- & praising Him for it -- is an effective way to prevent bitterness -- & instead, enjoy His peace!

 

   We are constantly adding to our prayer list -- but more than anything -- we should be adding to our praise list!

 

   "Oh, but" -- you may say -- "there are some things I cannot give thanks for; -- there are some things so hard -- so difficult to bear."

   Wait a moment! -- Dear Christian -- some day -- some glorious day --

"When we stand with Christ in glory,

Looking o'er life's finished story." --

We shall then see as we cannot now see -- just why all the hard things in life were permitted.

   We shall see how God was seeking to set us free from hindrances -- by pruning the branches from which He wished to get fruit for Himself.

   In that day -- we will thank Him for all the sorrow -- as well as for all the joy!

 

   The benefit we enjoy as God's children -- is in knowing that nothing can come to me -- to you -- but what His love allows & permits!

   With God in control -- "All things do work together for good!"

   Therefore -- our thanksgiving -- expresses confidence in God's ability!

   Thanksgiving is an expression of our faith -- & creates an environment in which God can work. 

   Faith is the only environment in which God can truly work!

  

   In the days of the Great Depression -- Clarence Darrow -- the brilliant attorney -- addressed the members of a black church in Chicago.

   Most of them were desperately poor -- without jobs -- & without hope.

   When Darrow began to speak -- he recounted all of their troubles -- & summed up their problems.

   Then -- remembering how they had sung so beautifully -- he said: -- "And yet you sing! -- No one can sing like you do! -- What do you have to sing about?"

   Quick as a flash -- a lady in the congregation shouted out -- "We've got Jesus to sing about!"

 

  And so we all do; -- we've got Jesus to sing about!

   Even when life bombards us with difficulty & disappointment -- even when we've lost possessions or position -- if we have Jesus -- we have all we really need!  

   Oh what benefits are ours! -- Think of who you are in Christ; -- what He's done for you; -- & what He's doing in you by His Spirit.

 

 

Conclusion:

   Henry Frost served for many years as a missionary to China.

   In his journal he wrote of a very difficult time in his life.

   He says: -- "I had received sad news from home -- & deep shadows had covered my soul. -- I prayed, but the darkness did not vanish. --

I summoned myself to endure, but the darkness only deepened. --

Then I went to an inland station & saw on the wall of the mission home these words: -- 'Try Thanksgiving.' -- I did -- & in a moment every shadow was gone -- not to return!"

   Yes the Psalmist was right when he said: -- "It is a good thing to give thanks unto the Lord."

   Our thanksgiving should include the blessing of life -- & also the burdens of life -- as well as the benefits of our life in Jesus Christ!

 

  Have you been going through some difficult times?

  Have you prayed -- but they are still there?

 Have you told yourself to keep on going -- & it would some day disappear -- but it got only deeper?

  Then -- why not try thanksgiving? 

   Whether life is pleasant -- or difficult -- hear & heed the words of our text once again: -- “Sing & make music in your heart to the Lord -- always giving thanks to God the Father for everything."